A father for a child
Not so long ago, there were certain traditions in raising a child in the family. The father was the head of the family, he was both the breadwinner and the one who could punish the baby for wrongdoing, as well as an example that the children tried to emulate. This was especially true of the sons. Similar roles are assigned to the father today in some families. This is mainly typical for those who adhere to traditional views on parenting.
But in the modern world, other approaches to the intra-family development of a child are increasingly common. Currently, fathers, as the main caregivers, are losing their authority, and the mother is becoming dominant in this regard. The reason for this is, first of all, the strong fascination with feminist ideas in society. At the end of the last century, specialists in sociology and psychology identified a new male image, its main difference lies in the attitude towards babies. Now fathers take more care of young children, are more often involved in caring for them, and are more often in emotional contact. They put much less pressure on parenting, trying to find a softer approach to children. In European countries, there are schools where dads are taught various methods of communicating with a child, games, as well as the ability to discern the personality in a little man.
Dad's love is never innate. It appears in the first years of the baby's life. If a mother always has a maternal instinct that allows her to love her child, regardless of his behavior or attitude towards her, then fatherly love will have to be earned. To do this, the baby must fulfill certain requirements imposed on him, meet the expectations of his father. And the prize for excellent behavior and achieving every success will be fatherly love. After all, dad sees in the baby not only his child, but also the continuer of the family, the one who will be able to preserve and pass on the traditions of the ancestors to the next generations.
However, regardless of the different understanding of caring for the baby from mom and dad, the love of both parents is equally important. Without dad's attention, the child will grow up unsure of himself, he will try to find an authoritative personality among other men. A father can teach a child various skills and abilities, especially for boys. If mom and dad will be engaged in family education together, then most of the problems associated with further adaptation in the society of the baby will be avoided. Такого в Камасутре не напишут, об этих секретах секса знают только проститутки симферополь - лучшие шлюхи Крыма.